Archives for June 2011

Multitudes on Monday – continuing in gratitude

June 7, 2011 By Diana

Joining with Ann Voskamp’s Monday gratitude group

(although I cannot for the life of me copy her button –

it just doesn’t paste when I hit the key!)

Last week’s photo list proved to be a really positive way for me to list my thanks – it colored how I looked at each day,

lending an extra set of eyes in a way.

(And caused me to make sure a camera was nearby.)

God is good, life is good (even when it’s hard),

and I am grateful.

So, it continues…

11. My baby with his baby on birthday #39 –

such a good man and good daddy;

12. Grandgirl number one’s first tooth gap – so proud!

13. ah, a trial run for the wedding day –

so happy for our girl to have found happiness after loss;

14. Our birthday gift veggie garden flourishing –

and providing fabulous beans/zucchini/crookneck

for dinner each night this week;

15. This face – what more can I say?

16. These two – enjoying each other on Friday;

17. These eyes, windows to heaven;

18. Getting this guy up and running for the summer –

love the sound of water splashing as we fall asleep;

19. Silent Saturday – 1st Saturday of the month –

3 hours of silence and prayer;

20. The scent of jasmine as we took our silent,

slow-stepping walks between centering prayer sessions;

21. practicing discipline, even with each step;

22. Discovering a splashing stream on my way back to my car;

23. Continuing the silence in my 2nd office – at the beach,

on a rainy June Saturday;

24. Still too much stuff – BUT – the 2-offices-into-1 are finally organized – thank you, Jesus!

25. And it will be a perfect space to meet with directees

and the Holy Spirit;

26. A desk surrounded by pieces of my story –

a story for which I am so grateful!

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Five Minute Friday: Every Day…

June 3, 2011 By Diana

It’s that time again: Friday morning and Lisa-Jo’s prompt. 5 minutes, start and stop – no editing, no worries.

GO:

Every day, I wake up glad and grateful to be alive.

Every day, I wonder …. how can I capture the pieces of my life and make sense of them for others to read.

Every day, I am grateful for my husband and his quirks and gifts.

Every day, I am grateful for my kids and their kids – for how they teach me about grace, for how they do their lives so much better than I did at their age.

Every day, I search for God in the echoes of the life I am living now.

A life without a set schedule (or at least a seriously less structured schedule);

a life without deadlines (most of the time);

a life without a congregation to care for and plan events for and occasionally preach and teach for.

But every day, I am more fully aware that the life I live now is not without meaning, purpose or value.

Every day, I come one step closer to relaxing into the life that is mine right now, this life that is looser, freer, less well-planned and organized.

Every day, I think I’m getting closer to getting it – to living it, inhabiting it more fully, experiencing what later life can be.

But every day, I know that I am one day closer to being truly old (I refuse that label just yet, even though I say it a lot).

Every day, I am closer to the end of this life and I want to end it well.

By God’s grace, I’ll make it to the tape and leap across with relief and gratitude.

STOP.

These leaves may be gray – but the flowers are still brilliant and cheery.

Here’s to letting the colors shine.

Formatting added later, and the photo, too.

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The Power of Encouragement

June 2, 2011 By Diana

Joining with Bonnie at Faith Barista for her Thursday invitation, and with Ann at A Holy Experience for her Walk with Him Wednesdays.

Seven members of The Birthday Breakfast Club, January 2011

“With this news, strengthen those who have tired hands, and encourage those who have weak knees. Say to those who are afraid, ‘Be strong and do not fear, for your God is coming to destroy your enemies.

He is coming to save you.’ Isaiah 35:3-4

“Here,” she said gently, handing me a slip of paper with her scrawling handwriting on it. “This is the phone number and the date for the next Information Day. This much I can do for you; the rest, you’ll have to do yourself.”

Gulp.

Five years of questioning, wondering, worrying, and fear.

Five years of wise counsel from trusted friends and pastors.

Five years of deep, even tearful conversations with my husband and my nearly adult children, always asking these questions:

Could I possibly do this?

Could I enroll in graduate school?

In seminary, for heaven’s sake?

Was this something God was calling me to do?

Was I heading in the right direction?

Could my life, as I knew it, change so radically and still be my life?

I didn’t have the answers as neatly in place as I might have liked. I couldn’t quell the butterflies that flittered and fluttered every time I thought about the idea. I couldn’t imagine how this would work.

But God put encouragers into my life, strong encouragers and through them, spoke truth to me:

Yes. You can do this – because I walk with you.

Yes. You can do this – because I call you to it.

Yes. You can do this – have a little faith.

That last push – that slip of paper put into my outstretched hand – came from my friend Judy. And Judy was chief among a group of friends who encouraged me to open my heart, my mind and my spirit to the possibility that God might be doing a new thing in me.

This group had a distinctly non-spiritual title. We called ourselves the Birthday Breakfast Club and we came together not to study the Bible, not to spend hours in prayer, not to do any of what most small group curricula tell you a small group should be doing.

We knew each other from church – some of us knew each other better than others. And we decided we would meet regularly throughout the year on or around each person’s birthday. And we would meet for breakfast. The birthday girl would have the spotlight – telling her story in any way she chose. The rest of us would focus on that one story-telling woman, asking questions, offering suggestions, celebrating the high points, commiserating over low points.

Gradually, over time, this group became one of the most profoundly spiritual groups of which I have ever been a part. We probed deeply into each other’s faith journeys and marveled at God’s grace and patience. We laughed loudly and often. We cried easily and honestly. And eventually, we did pray – but it came out of our growing connection to one another, especially as we began to include an annual overnight together, a kind of mini-retreat held somewhere beautiful.

Two of the women in this group happened to be college and seminary professors, Judy being one of those, and their presence helped me to see the wonderful and powerful truth that God calls all kinds of people, including women, to step up and step out into leadership in the academy and the church.

And over the course of the first three years of our BBC group gathering together every few weeks, these encouraging friends helped me to hear the voice of God. The questions asked, the comments made, the observations of my own gifts and personality offered – all of it helped to crystallize for me a call from God to take a gigantic leap of faith. DEEP breath…

I went to that Information Day. I felt strongly nudged to enroll in the M. Div program, the degree that often leads to pastoral ministry of some kind. And when I had completed the application forms, gathered my referral letters, and written the check to begin the process – four of my friends from the BBC walked with me into the Admissions Office at Fuller Seminary and together, we shoved that envelope through the slot. At the age of 44, I began a brand new life.

I answered God’s call to me to go to seminary, a call I initially heard as a way to become a more effective, informed Bible teacher. About midway through my experience there, a deeper truth began to emerge – a call to pastoral ministry, surprising me greatly. And once again, these friends were voices of encouragement – asking the hard questions, affirming my gifts, pointing out possible pitfalls, supporting me in the process of discernment.

Because a true encourager is more than a fan, more than a cheerleader – although those elements are a part of the picture. An encourager is one who knows you well, who sees you as a whole person, who calls out the best in you, who gently admonishes the not-best in you and who stands with you, whether the way ahead is smooth or rough.

Four years of seminary, three years of working in my home church while I completed requirements for ordination, and then came a call to serve a church 125 miles away.

And these friends and I have met halfway somewhere near my birthday for almost every one of these last 14 years. And each time we meet, I am once again deeply and oh-so-personally encouraged. What a gift. What a life-changing gift. I am forever grateful for their sweet voices and for that scrawling handwritten note that marked the beginning of my journey toward today.